Patience Seekhna Hai....?Mastering the Art of Patience

"Mujhe sab kuch aata hai… par fir bhi profit nahi hota!"

Ye line sunte hi pata chal jaata hai — knowledge hai, chart samajh lete ho, indicators bhi padh lete ho… but trading ki jaan — patience — missing hai.
Aur jab patience nahi hota… toh kya hota hai?
- Achi entries chook jaati hain
- Jaldi exits kar lete ho
- Aur kabhi kabhi overconfidence me poora capital uda dete ho

But let me ask you this honestly — Kya patience ek skill hai? Ya ek gift?

Patience is not a LUXURY. It's a TRADING WEAPON.
And har successful trader ke paas ye weapon hota hai.

But... kaise develop karein ye patience?

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First – Let’s Burst a Dangerous Trading Myth:

"Zyada knowledge le lo, toh automatically patience aa jaayega jese jese Technical acha hoga."

Bilkul jhooth.
Patience koi content ka byproduct nahi hai.
Wo ek mindset muscle hai — jo har trade ke saath train hoti hai.

Maine khud dekha hai logon ko — 5 courses, 10 strategies, hundreds of hours of YouTube… phir bhi intraday me 5 mins me panic kar jaate hain.

Woh panic hota hai, kyunki unka brain kabhi patience practice karta hi nahi.

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Real-Life Trader Example:

Ek student hai Discord community mein – naam nahi lunga, par unki problem bahut common thi.
Wo har baar trade karte the – sahi direction pick karte – par exit kar jaate jaldi se chote se profit pe.
Aur phir dekhte dekhte wohi Position achi badh jaati.

Jab maine unke trades ka review kiya, pata chala:
Problem technical nahi thi — mindset thi.
Unka dimaag risk se darta tha, Patni k baad paisa hi unka pyar tha
(esa mujhko lagaa……., ab patni jaada pyari hai ya paisa ya to vo jaane…, ya unki patni…., ya Bihariji………
khair, hume kisiki Grasthi se kya hi lena dena….Bas apki muskhrahat ke liye likh diya!!!)

Patience ka matlab unke liye tha – loss ka wait karna.

One on One Sessions k liye unhone eroll kiya aur Unko ek hi cheez ne transform kiya:
Risk Management jo dimaag me permanently baith gaya.
Tab jaake patience ka space bana unke mind me.

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Patience = Mental Margin

Jaise capital margin hota hai — waise hi har trader ke paas ek mental margin bhi hoti hai.

Agar wo margin zero ho — toh chahe chart perfect ho, breakout genuine ho, aur risk small ho…
tum panic me exit karoge.
Tum revenge trade karoge.
Tum plan todoge.

So now the big question:
"Kaise build karein ye mental margin aur patience?"

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3 Deeply Practical Steps to Build Trader’s Patience:

1. Risk ko dimaag mein basao — not just Excel sheet pe.

Sabse pehle, tumhe risk management feel karna padega, samajhna nahi.
Jo log bas SL lagake bhool jaate hain, woh patience lose nahi karte.

That’s why in my first ever recorded course — I’ve created a special module:
🎯 The Risk Shastra
— Ye Risk Management ka aisa version hai jo sirf samjhaaata nahi hai, dimaag shift karta hai.

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2. Stock Trading as a Grounding Practice

Options traders sun lo —
Agar tumhara patience weak hai, toh Options tumse aur bhi khatarnaak galtiyan karwayenge.
That’s why I always say:

🛑 "If you want success in Options Trading…
Stock (Equity) Trading is the Entry Gate."

Usmein tumhara brain seekhta hai wait karna, plan banana, aur capital protect karna.

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3. Slow Trading Practice with Real Stakes

Apne Discord members ko main ek hi cheez kehta hoon:
"Daily ek hi Strategy pe 1 Year tak trade karo — same quantity, same strategy, Same Instrument"

Why?

Kyunki repetition patience build karta hai.
Repetition se brain ko certainty milti hai.

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BONUS: 4 More Life-Tested Ways to Build Patience (Not Just for Trading)

4. Micro-delays = Macro Patience

🧠 “Agar tum chhoti chhoti cheezon me rukna nahi seekh sakte, toh bade decision pe patience kaise aayega?”

✅ Daily life me realistic exercise:

• Next time jab phone me koi notification aaye — wait karo 10 seconds before opening it.

• Trading k ailawa life me jis chiz k liye excitement ho jaan kar kuch der wait kro usko delay karo.

• Patience Mind ki strability se aata hai. Meditate and be Religious it will help you like anything.

Ye chhoti chhoti delays tumhare impulse loop ko todti hain.
Trading me jab price aage badh raha hota hai, aur tumhara hath “BUY” pe jaa raha hota hai —
Wahi impulse control yeh chhoti practices se develop hota hai.

"Micro delays = Neural rewiring = Better impulse control."

Ab jab tum market me ho, tumhara brain trained hota hai turant react karne se pehle observe karne ke liye.

5. Delayed Gratification Training (In Trades – Not Just Theory)

“Jab chart perfect ho, price bhi move kar raha ho, aur profit dikh raha ho… kya tum exit karne se pehle thoda wait kar sakte ho?”
Agar haan, toh tumhara patience real hai. Agar nahi… toh build karna hoga.

✅ Trading ke andar direct practice:

• Jab bhi price tumhare target ke aas paas aaye —
  👉 Turant exit mat karo.
  👉 candle close ka wait karo.
  👉 Ya phir trailing SL ka rule set karo and follow it blindly.

Ye deliberate delay tumhe sikhata hai:
“Main market ke liye nahi, apne system ke liye kaam karta hoon.”

✅ Life me delayed gratification:

• Khaas cheez (coffee, snack, social media) ka timing fix karo.
  Jaise — "Main sirf 4 baje Instagram check karunga."

• Apne reward ko kisi action se jodo —

Ye sab tumhare reward circuitry ko reset karta hai.
Aur jab reward delay hota hai, patience automatic banta hai.

6. Journaling Your Impulses

Har baar jab tum impulsive trade lete ho, ya jaldi exit karte ho — usko likh lo.
Jab tum likhte ho, tum dekhte ho — aur jab tum dekhte ho, tum badalte ho.

7. Life me bhi patience dalo — Trading me naturally aayega

🚦 Traffic me chill rehna
📱 Instagram ka dopamine control karna
🧘 Meditation practice karna
These aren’t just “feel good” habits.
Ye sab tumhara mental discipline strong karte hain.

Patience is not just a Trading Edge. It’s a Life Edge.

Jo insaan patience seekh leta hai —
Chahe business ho, health ho, relationship ho ya trading — sab me consistent rehta hai.

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🎓 Now Read This Carefully

After 2 years of teaching live…
I’m finally launching my first recorded course:

⚔️ The Shastra of Stock Trading

Isme sirf theory nahi milegi —
Aapko milega:

• 💡 Mind rewiring Risk Management (The Risk Shastra)

• 📊 Strategies for Intraday, Swing, and Investing (The Asta Shastra)

• 🔍 Stock Selection Framework ( The Drishti Shastra)

• 🧠 Monthly Q&A meets (LIVE with me) (The Samvaad Shastra)

• 💬 Discord LIMITED Access

And most importantly —
You’ll develop the patience of a real trader — not just strategy memorization.

"Jo trader patience develop kar leta hai,
Woh market ke har phase me relevant ban jaata hai."

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Antim Mool Mantra:

Market sab kuch de sakti hai —
Par sirf usko deti hai jiske andar rukne ka, observe karne ka, aur repeat karne ka sabr hota hai.

Trading is not a speed game.
It’s a stillness game.

And the good news?

Stillness seekhi ja sakti hai.
Bas sahi guidance, sahi system, aur sahi Shastra chahiye.

Let’s build it.
Together.

धीरे धीरे रे मना, धीरे सब कुछ होय।
माली सींचे सौ घड़ा, ऋतु आये फल होय॥

Rasik Raj Kinkar
Divya Bihari Das
BiahriDas Trading